plus size cocktail dress with off-the-shoulder neckline low tulle hem enhanced by see Ever-Pretty Sequin Leaf Midi Semi

Psst If you dont want to wear the sleeves the entire time, these chic bishop sleeves are detachable and oh-so-dreamy

For the snowy or frigedly cold winter climate like NYC (and I have celebrated birthdays there too) a coat is a must have so dress it up with a faux fur coat and ankle boots which will make you look effortlessly elegant

Polo Shirt As a guest at a graduation ceremony a nice polo shirt is perfectly acceptable attire

Following the size chart actually helped

You can finally break out those streamlined sneakers, or you can opt for nice loafers

And, a front slit means your girls can move around (or dance the night away) unencumbered